Friday, November 24, 2006

Just a thought

As I write this, the warm African sun is setting on the beautiful horizon outside my window silhouetting the trees and I can hear children laughing and amazing African music playing and women pounding what will become tonight's dinner and I am too aware how I am perpetually living in 2 worlds at the same time - there is always what I live every day here and what I live in my heart with my family and friends a million miles away. And when I was at home it was the same - the life I lived everyday with my family and friends and the life I was yearning to live out there somewhere. I miss you and I love you and I'm with you in heart and mind, and I love it here too and I love these people too and I will also miss them one day for sure:)


Uncle Mike - you can leave a comment after any post, but you can also email me at nanettemkelley@gmail.com if you like. I love you and miss you!

Steph and Dad - thank you thank you thank you for calling me. It is so wonderful to hear your voices!

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Miscellaneous in November

First I would like to send out belated birthday wishes to Steph and Amber! Please know I was with you in spirit and thought!
Happy upcoming birthday to you dad!!! I'm sorry to miss the big 60, but you know I love you and will be thinking of you.
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone! Have some turkey and stuffing for me and know that I am thankful for all of you!!

So I have 4 days left with my host family and 8 days left until I move to my new site on the other side of the country. It is chilly here in the mornings and evenings and I am loving it (my room temp read 73F this morning and I had goosebumps!). My host family thinks I'm nuts because I'm still leaving in the mornings wearing tank tops, while they stand there in awe wearing big winter coats and hats. It is too funny. It averages 85F during the day right now. I venture to guess that will always be hot to me.

I took my host sister swimming (at the only pool in the city which is at a hotel here) this past Sunday and that was super fun. She had never been in a pool before but was brave enough to try it out with the crazy American (and in the winter no less!). She did an excellent job and I got some great pics to leave with her. That night the priest brought over the movie Troy (with Brad Pitt) and that was a pleasant break from African and French tv. I watched all my episodes of the Office and Grey's Anatomy in one day. It's an addiction that I cannot control!! That was overload because, of course, I am now dying to know what happens next and it makes me really miss being home. I'm a glutton for punishment:)
The care package goodies are turning out to be priceless tools for bartering with the other volunteers (especially the M&Ms and Chips Ahoys!). You would think these people haven't had chocolate in 2 months!! :)

My training group started with 39 trainees when we left the U.S. - 22 business and 17 health volunteers, and if all goes according to plan it looks like 38 will swear-in as Peace Corps volunteers next Thursday. That is an excellent success rate! I think the going rate of quitting during training is 10%. I must say that the training here in Burkina is very well thought-out and put-together thanks to the staff and volunteers in country. It has been a great experience so far.

I haven't been sleeping well for various reasons, resulting in interesting daytime hallucinations (I'm kidding, I'm just tired:). I have a lot going on mentally so I have vivid dreams and wake up frequently during the night. If this were the only thing going on I might be ok, but I live in Burkina Faso. This means 2 things right now. First, there is the ever-present rooster that failed in rooster school and starts cockadoodling around 2-3am (aren't these guys supposed to let us know when the sun is rising??). He is, however, very good at sounding every hour on the hour. The second is the fact that I live near a mosque. I think I have mentioned that a decent percent of the population here is Muslim and there is a mosque located approximately 6 blocks from my house. It is Muslim custom to pray 5 times per day at certain designated times (one of which is 4am). When it is time for prayer there is a "call to prayer" which consists of someone at the mosque (I am assuming) singing or chanting or humming (I'm really not sure what I describe it as) to call them to pray - for the entire hour. Some mornings the call is more pleasant than others ranging from a nice melody to what can only be described as a donkey being slaughtered. It seems that each morning the mosque moves closer and closer to my house to the point that I am pretty certain the guy was right outside my bedroom window this morning. I am not complaining, only using this space describe what life here is like for me and to pray that I live quite a distance from a mosque (and roosters) at my new site. The mosque buildings are beautiful, but the calls come early and loudly and always on time.

I would like to dedicate a portion of this post to my host mom. The Peace Corps has been pretty specific about asking us to not disclose the names and places of other volunteers and I have decided to do the same with my host family. I will call her Madame B. She is one of the strongest women I have ever met. I think she might sleep somewhere between the hours of midnight and 4am (when the call starts:). She is Catholic and goes to mass every morning at 6am. She defines the word "multi-tasker." I have watched her sell a dress, hold a conversation with another lady, wave hi to someone else passing by all while she is running to get a chair for me to sit in and offer me some cake with a smile. This lady is phenomenal. She owns a boutique where she sells womens shoes and dresses and nail polish, and drinks and cakes (that she prepares every night). She also makes sandwiches for the professors at the high school and for the doctors at the hospital. She is also learning to drive a car right now and she runs a tight ship at home. She is very well-known in this community and is friends with many of the other female entrepreneurs here. I like to call them the big-ballers of Ouahigouya. She is caring and generous and is always making sure I am comfortable and have what I need. If I mention that I would like to buy something in the market, it appears at the house that evening. And if I mention that I want to try something or learn something she jumps right to it. I will be learning how to make to and sauce osaille (I think) which has become my new favorite Burkinabe dish. She tells me that her family is my family and that she will be very sad when I leave. In the research I did before I came to Burkina and in the trainings I have had for the past 2 months here, I have been reading and discussing the woman's role in Burkina. I have been warned that women are not equal to men here. Oftentimes they do not eat with the men of the family, many are not literate, many play a subordinate role to their husbands. This is true all over this country, but this woman does not fit that mold. She wears pants in this family (in addition to her husband) and she laughs frequently and dances when she feels the urge and smiles often and juggles a million things at once. My host mom and dad have a unique and beautiful relationship and home life and I love it. I am fortunate to have been paired with this family.

That's all for now. More to come soon! Happy Thanksgiving!!

Saturday, November 18, 2006

The criminal...

I had my first (and hopefully only) run-in with the police (or military, I get them confused) this week and it was very interesting. I feel like I have to preface this story...There are laws here, traffic and others, that are not always followed - for whatever reason. I like to think of it (at least the traffic) as organised chaos. There are stop signs at some intersections and not at others - for whatever reason. It is the law that you stop (the truck, car, bike, motorcycle, donkey cart) and put your foot on the ground (at least for the bikes and motos - I can't speak for the donkeys) and then proceed. I can count the number of times I have seen people actually stop and put their foot on the ground. So I was on my way to class a couple of days ago when I approached a street, slowed, and proceeded to turn left onto the paved road. At the next side road a man in uniform whistled (with a whistle) for me to "pull over." So I did and he explained that since I didn't stop at the stop sign and put my foot on the ground I had to leave my bike with him until I paid the fee. The fee was the equivalent of 6 days pay for me and I didn't have it in my pocket at the time (not that I would have paid it if I had it). One of the language teachers saw me on the side of the road and came to the rescue. She called our director and they came to pick me up and take me to class and in the meantime worked out the situation. I essentially got out of having to pay for it, but I'm glad it happened here and now. It wasn't a bad situation, just a good lesson to learn early on. I feel bad for the other people who were stopped (it was clearly a traffic sting) because the fee is high and I know a lot of people weren't able to pay it. I saw them pull over a lady with a baby on her back and a bunch of bags (looks like she just went shopping), and a really really old man who looked like he was on his way to church. Just another day in the life:)

The Motherload!

When it rains it pours! I received 5 packages yesterday (which I'm pretty sure is a record for our training group)! It has been a very busy week (good, but BUSY because we are nearing the end of training and it feels like everything must be squeezed in before it's over) and I was in my language class yesterday afternoon when I got a text on my cell phone that said I had packages at the office. Yeah I did!!! Wooohoooo!! Thank you thank you thank you to my loved ones for looking out for me and sending me goodies!
Dad - you are the best, my motivation, I love you! Steph and Brent - you are so thoughtful (the fruit juice nuggets were a genius idea)!!!! Bub and Jenny - thank you so much for thinking of me even when you were going crazy preparing to move to China!! Norm - thank you for going above and beyond the call of duty to include not only Grey's Anatomy, but also THE OFFICE AND the program to be able to watch movies on my laptop!!! Mom, Jenny, April and Andre - thank you for the cards and letters. It means the world to get stories and words of encouragement from you! I love everything!!!
I must say that I will NOT be needing anymore granola/nutragrain bars, gum, wet ones (how funny), crackers and cheese, lifesavers, or peanuts (especially because they are grown here:) for a LONG LONG time! Holy canoli!! They got here at just the right time too, because when I first get to my site it might take a little time to get everything I need to function on my own! A million thanks to everyone!


Other ideas for future items - NOT requests, just the response to those who are asking:

-rechargeable AA batteries
-package of men's Hanes M v-neck t-shirts and tank tops (wifebeaters, but I hate that word!)
-tank tops (any)
-toothpaste
-2-in-1 shampoo
-conditioner (any)
-deoderant (any)
-magazines or books (any and it doesn't matter how old)
-anything smell good
-nail polish (any color)
-any sauce mix
-lip stuff (chapstick, lip gloss, anything!)
-anything or nothing!!

Some blogs from other girls in my training group for anyone who is interested...
Ericainafrica.blogspot.com
Grits2bf.blogpost.com
Disclaimer: I am not responsible for nor do I necessarily support anything that anyone else has written or will write. Just another place to possibly find more info and pictures. I have not read these, so read at your own risk!

Thursday, November 09, 2006

New address

My new address is...
Nanette Kelley, PCV
Corps de la Paix Americain
BP 1065
Bobo-Dioulasso
Burkina Faso (West Africa)

My phone number is the same...
011 226 76185075

I will work on getting these onto my blog site permanently soon.

Things are fantastic with me! The end of training is quickly approaching and it is bittersweet. I am excited to get to my site and get settled and get started with my new job, but I am really really sad to only have 21 days left with my host family. They are truly wonderful and giving and caring and I am so fortunate to have been paird up with them. I promise I am the luckiest person here!

We (the PC trainees and staff) have a soccer team and we play against different groups of people. It started off as only 10-12 year old girls, but has now grown to boys and men (last night there were 5 men on their team). And we have another match on Saturday in a nearby village against teenage boys. I am fully planning to get whipped. Soccer here is not played on nice, soft grass, but on slippery red dirt/rock terrain with random patches of coarse weeds and the occasional pile of animal deposits here and there. I think it is safe to say that everyone in this country is good at soccer. This just means that I will get that much better:)

Last week we went in groups of 7 to record a sensibilisation (some type of training) at the local radio station and it was played on the radio today! It was fantastic! My group did malnutrition and it was, of course, in French.

Time is running out. I will update more soon! Love you all!!

Things I love...

I love love love the little super cute children who see me coming (biking) down the street and drop everything they are doing to run to me (or by me or behind me) and wave their tiny hands (to the point I think they are going to fall off!) and yell "Bonjuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!" (I know it's spelled wrong but that is exactly how it sounds.) And when I greet them back their faces light up and they smile and laugh and cheer. I love love love them.

I love greeting the older people I pass on the streets in their local language (which not only consists of saying hello, but also asking how the family and the work are doing and then also having to respond to the same questions) and watching a huge smile appear on their faces:)

I love going for a run after a jam packed day just as the sun is setting (you know I couldn't get up at 5am everyday and run - come on).

I love playing soccer against 10-12 year old girls who are kicking my butt without even wearing shoes.

I love having yoga classes in French while 20 kids stare in through the "windows."

I love cold watermelon that my family serves to me at EVERY meal I eat at the house (breakfast and dinner Mon-Sat and all 3 on Sunday)!!

I love waking up every morning in Africa knowing I have the support and prayers of my family and friends and knowing that what I do each day here is really making a difference (however small) in this world.

Monday, November 06, 2006

Jimmy Carter and Chinese tea

Every Monday and Thursday evening (without exception), and other evenings as they require an exception, my host family "has tea." The tea is Chinese and served hot in a teacup fit for a smurf (about the size of a shot glass), and preparing it is a process. It is a ritual practised throughout this country by old and young, muslim and catholic usually sitting in a circle with friends. There are always 3 rounds of tea. The first round is the most potent, and the tea gets weaker with each subsequent round. The process is as follows: The tea is measured and poured into a small teapot. One glass of water is added. The teapot is placed on a little apparatus just big enough for the small teapot with hot coals which my host father fans occasionally to make the tea boil. After a while sugar is measured and poured into a second tiny teapot and the tea is poured back and forth between the two pots for mixing. The interesting part is that the tea must be poured from a distance in order to maximize the foam that gathers at the top when the tea is poured. So it is poured back and forth, back and forth over and over. Then placed back on the coals to boil again and then poured back and forth until is it "parfait." At perfection it is poured into the tiny teacups to be distributed to the party (max 6 due to tiny teacup availability). We sip the tea and then starts round 2. "Having tea" usually takes about an hour and I have grown to really look forward to it. So last night (Sunday night) was one of the exceptions because a friend of my host mom's was in town from the capital city. My host father gave me my first cup and offered some peanuts to go with. I wasn't in the mood for peanuts so I declined, which prompted a relatively lengthy discussion that I just HAD to write home about, the summary of which went a little something like..."Jimmy Carter was a peanut farmer and was also the president of the states and I am american so I should like peanuts with my Chinese tea." Just another day in the life in Burkina and I am loving it:) Always entertaining. Today is Monday, aka "tea night." Stay tuned for more interesting discussion summaries;)

Friday, November 03, 2006

Assignment!!

Okay! I got the news yesterday that my assigment will be in the 2nd biggest city! The name is Bobo-Dioulasso and it is in the Southwest region of the country. Look it up! What this means:
-Electricity
-Internet access
-Green! (trees, plants, etc.)
-Fruits and vegetables all year (whatever is in season of course)
-A great group of close volunteers
-Safer than the capital city
This was my first choice, so I am really really happy. I will have to explain what I will be doing at a later time.
We are going to SIAO (panAfrican art festival!!) now so I will have to update more later! Love you all, miss you all!

p.s. thank you so much for the comments! I read them all and it's so great to know you guys are following along! Even though I'm on the other side of the world and often feel like I am all alone and so far from everyone and everything familiar and normal for me, it feels so good to know I have you "with" me! I have such a great group of friends and family! I really appreciate the support and well-wishes! It means A LOT!